Bad enough as it is that you not only have to work hard at ensuring that you get your message across to your audience, but that you also have to concentrate so much of your energy fighting off the fear of speaking in public. This fear is as ancient as fear of death or snakes and interestingly rank among these two top fears.
So, the key on how to improve public speaking is to know your fear. Read on.
We all have experienced it at one time or the other, the dry mouth, the racing heart and for some people even nausea or feeling faint. All these followed by an acute and magnified self-consciousness.
Why do we suffer this and hamper our own performance? The reason is, ironically the fear of failure, the same fear of failure feeding an endless negative cycle of lowered performance and even more fear.
It is time to break this cycle
Many a times, fear of public speaking can be broken by simply pushing on and gaining more confidence as you continue to speak, this only works well if you have not been too far handicapped by your fear. This method is not recommended because even if you managed to perform, the first impression you give to the audience is damaged.
The best way to fight off the fear is to deal with the root cause – Fear of failure.
You can fight your fear by preparing for your speech more thoroughly; you will get a positive feedback cycle as the more you prepare the lower chances of failure and the greater confidence boost.
Once you have prepared a good speech, practice it. There is no substitute to practicing your speech, read it out aloud, look and listen to yourself, gather an audience of friends or family to practice and use their feedback.
Summary
Speaking to an audience or a group is hard for most of us; we all have experienced the fear at one time or the other. But with understanding of this fear comes the wisdom and knowledge on how to improve public speaking and prepare ourselves against it. With preparation and practice we deal with the core cause of the fear and without fear, the opportunities are yours for the taking.
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